"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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asking her opinion on fashion

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hey, i'm casual friends with a girl (not LJBF'd) and i'm trying to come up with a good way to iniate conversation with her.

anyway, there's an expensive pair of sneakers online that i want to get

would it be a smart idea to be like, "hey, i wanted a girl's opinion on these, what do you think?" i'd ask it confidently and with humor

would a girl dig that or would it come across as AFC

btw, the sneakers are crazy expensive and i figure her seeing the hefty price tag and knowing i'm willing to spend that money on fashion wouldn't hurt either

thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HandyAndy said:
Sure you can ask her. Ppl do it in stores all the time. Girls know fashion
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Yea, I just don't want come across as weak and needing her approval... my intent would be to just get her opinion (and wow her with the price)
 
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iqqi said:
THAT is AFC.

She will either see right through it, or think you are foolish to pay so much for some shoes.
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Point taken, I suppose.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't think too hard.

Go ahead and ask her for fashion advice. It'll be fine. I promise.
 
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The Deacon said:
Don't think too hard.

Go ahead and ask her for fashion advice. It'll be fine. I promise.
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Well I guess that ends that discussion... thanks.
 
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