“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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asking her opinion on fashion

tsmith2334

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hey, i'm casual friends with a girl (not LJBF'd) and i'm trying to come up with a good way to iniate conversation with her.

anyway, there's an expensive pair of sneakers online that i want to get

would it be a smart idea to be like, "hey, i wanted a girl's opinion on these, what do you think?" i'd ask it confidently and with humor

would a girl dig that or would it come across as AFC

btw, the sneakers are crazy expensive and i figure her seeing the hefty price tag and knowing i'm willing to spend that money on fashion wouldn't hurt either

thoughts?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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tsmith2334

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HandyAndy said:
Sure you can ask her. Ppl do it in stores all the time. Girls know fashion
Yea, I just don't want come across as weak and needing her approval... my intent would be to just get her opinion (and wow her with the price)
 

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iqqi said:
THAT is AFC.

She will either see right through it, or think you are foolish to pay so much for some shoes.
Point taken, I suppose.
 

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Don't think too hard.

Go ahead and ask her for fashion advice. It'll be fine. I promise.
 

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The Deacon said:
Don't think too hard.

Go ahead and ask her for fashion advice. It'll be fine. I promise.
Well I guess that ends that discussion... thanks.
 
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