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Asking girls out to formal events...

Balla_Baby_69

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There's a freshman formal tomorrow and you don't really have to bring a date, most aren't. Most of the people I know are just going with good friends for dates.

This girl I'm interested in....I've talked to her a few times, good standing with her. Would it be bad to ask her if she would like to be my date to this thing?
 

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Originally posted by Balla_Baby_69
There's a freshman formal tomorrow and you don't really have to bring a date, most aren't. Most of the people I know are just going with good friends for dates.

This girl I'm interested in....I've talked to her a few times, good standing with her. Would it be bad to ask her if she would like to be my date to this thing?
You: "I'm going to the Freshman formal. You should come with me."

Answer Options:

Option 1.
Her: "No, I can't, I'm going with Charles! Isn't he dreeeeamy?"

-doh!- Recover:

You: "Oh, no, not as a date. I'm going with Gina Gosdoun and Susie Suchsalot. I meant did you want to drive there with us?"

Option 2.
Her: "Oh! Well, sure!"

-whoot!-

You: "Great. I'll pick you up at 7. Do you want to go to the hotel and sit in the hot-tub afterwards, or just go straight to my place?"
Her: "Uh... I mean... maybe... uh... Isn't it a little early to be hot-tubbing with each other?"
You: "Oh, I totally agree. My place it is. See you at 7!"
Her: "But..."

-click-
 

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just go for it. dont sit around and just think about it, cause all your gonna end up doing is making yourself nervous. goodluck with that.
 

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