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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asking girls out to formal events...

Balla_Baby_69

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There's a freshman formal tomorrow and you don't really have to bring a date, most aren't. Most of the people I know are just going with good friends for dates.

This girl I'm interested in....I've talked to her a few times, good standing with her. Would it be bad to ask her if she would like to be my date to this thing?
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Originally posted by Balla_Baby_69
There's a freshman formal tomorrow and you don't really have to bring a date, most aren't. Most of the people I know are just going with good friends for dates.

This girl I'm interested in....I've talked to her a few times, good standing with her. Would it be bad to ask her if she would like to be my date to this thing?
You: "I'm going to the Freshman formal. You should come with me."

Answer Options:

Option 1.
Her: "No, I can't, I'm going with Charles! Isn't he dreeeeamy?"

-doh!- Recover:

You: "Oh, no, not as a date. I'm going with Gina Gosdoun and Susie Suchsalot. I meant did you want to drive there with us?"

Option 2.
Her: "Oh! Well, sure!"

-whoot!-

You: "Great. I'll pick you up at 7. Do you want to go to the hotel and sit in the hot-tub afterwards, or just go straight to my place?"
Her: "Uh... I mean... maybe... uh... Isn't it a little early to be hot-tubbing with each other?"
You: "Oh, I totally agree. My place it is. See you at 7!"
Her: "But..."

-click-
 

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just go for it. dont sit around and just think about it, cause all your gonna end up doing is making yourself nervous. goodluck with that.
 

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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