"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Asking for date/number joke I use

Aru

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Lately I've been using a joke right after asking a girl out whom I know from a contextual situation (e.g., I only know her from class, party, etc.)

There was a girl I knew from Physics class and we became study buddies. Eventually I got around to asking her out and she said yes. I followed this up with:

"It'd be nice to get to know you outside of the context of Physics. I mean, every time I see you I've either got my physics book..(pause).....or feel like I need to run home and get it!" (gets a nice laugh)

I've successfully adapated this to many other girls. I got the number of a cute cashier at the dining hall whom I have talked with on several occasions.

"We can hang out sometime...outside the context of this place. I mean, every time I see you...."

Also asked a girl out from chorus class in the same manner. Once again worked to my success.

You get the point. Seems to work nicely for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dont do it too much, its a small word and eventually 2 chicks will talk and be like wtf? he used the same line?
only goes downhill from there.
 
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