Lately I've been using a joke right after asking a girl out whom I know from a contextual situation (e.g., I only know her from class, party, etc.)
There was a girl I knew from Physics class and we became study buddies. Eventually I got around to asking her out and she said yes. I followed this up with:
"It'd be nice to get to know you outside of the context of Physics. I mean, every time I see you I've either got my physics book..(pause).....or feel like I need to run home and get it!" (gets a nice laugh)
I've successfully adapated this to many other girls. I got the number of a cute cashier at the dining hall whom I have talked with on several occasions.
"We can hang out sometime...outside the context of this place. I mean, every time I see you...."
Also asked a girl out from chorus class in the same manner. Once again worked to my success.
You get the point. Seems to work nicely for me.
There was a girl I knew from Physics class and we became study buddies. Eventually I got around to asking her out and she said yes. I followed this up with:
"It'd be nice to get to know you outside of the context of Physics. I mean, every time I see you I've either got my physics book..(pause).....or feel like I need to run home and get it!" (gets a nice laugh)
I've successfully adapated this to many other girls. I got the number of a cute cashier at the dining hall whom I have talked with on several occasions.
"We can hang out sometime...outside the context of this place. I mean, every time I see you...."
Also asked a girl out from chorus class in the same manner. Once again worked to my success.
You get the point. Seems to work nicely for me.