"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asking for # before creating rapport

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Do you have to create a rapport with a girl before asking for her #? Would most girls find this ackward?

The reason I ask is there's a girl that I'm attracted to at work. We work in the same building, but we don't actually work together. I'm a security guard, and she works in the administration area, which is in another part of the building. So I don't see her very often, and most of the time when I do see her it's only for a few seconds. I say Hey to her everytime I see her, and she always smiles and says Hey back. But I don't really get many chances to talk to her. Would it be better to gradually try to work my way up, or just come right out and introduce myself and ask for her #?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My wing pulls numbers all the time before... well, ****.. I've heard him open with give me your number. :rolleyes:

But he just has a lot of fun with it.

At a HUGE halloween party the other day he walked up to a girl and just grabbed her ass from behind "Turn around and face me!" she turned around all shocked and then "Give me your number... Give it!"...she gave it, then danced with him and was eating him up.. following up so far has been solid.

so whatever.. I mean anything is possible.

I dont suggest guys walking around grabbing asses though mind you. :D

My style is different though, I will usually number close in about 15minutes, But I'm really only pushing for make-outs, f-closes, anything physical... So right now if I pull a number its usually kinda like I aint getting where I want to go so I eject, with their number.
 
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....but I was answering your first initial question.


Your situation is different, I would definitely go for rapport in that type of situation. I feel like this to be very challenging though all things considered.

I guess go with your gut man, Game it! ...and uhh accept the fact that if you fail its cool, you will only be seeing her all the time after that :p hehe, just kidding.. nah man, no regrets. You want her. Try. Its your only chance.

Rapport, fun, playful. but maybe direct.
 
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