"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so myspace friend who ive never had a long conversation with (we hang out in the same circles) and i hit it off at the club the other night. at around 1am, her freind dragged her off to go home, but not before asking me to call her that very night. unfrotunately, i didnt have her number (which i didint realize at the time).

anyways, would it be weird to ask her for it now via myspace message?

along the lines of "hey i wanted to call you but i dididint have your number".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PHAT Rabbit said:
Why not?

I would use some callback humor though to ensure you get it...think about something you guys joked about last night and insert some kind of phrase or tidbit referring to it. Than I'd throw something out there like.."you're pretty cool shoot me over your number." Although it may not matter, I'd stay clear of something like "I really wanted to call you...but I didn't have you number", because can sound needy.
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sounding needy was exactly what i was trying to avoid. it just sounded weird in my head no matter how i phrased it. thanks for hte advice though, exactly what i was looking for
 
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