"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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asking for a girl's number on facebook

garruk

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so myspace friend who ive never had a long conversation with (we hang out in the same circles) and i hit it off at the club the other night. at around 1am, her freind dragged her off to go home, but not before asking me to call her that very night. unfrotunately, i didnt have her number (which i didint realize at the time).

anyways, would it be weird to ask her for it now via myspace message?

along the lines of "hey i wanted to call you but i dididint have your number".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PHAT Rabbit said:
Why not?

I would use some callback humor though to ensure you get it...think about something you guys joked about last night and insert some kind of phrase or tidbit referring to it. Than I'd throw something out there like.."you're pretty cool shoot me over your number." Although it may not matter, I'd stay clear of something like "I really wanted to call you...but I didn't have you number", because can sound needy.

sounding needy was exactly what i was trying to avoid. it just sounded weird in my head no matter how i phrased it. thanks for hte advice though, exactly what i was looking for
 
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