“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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garruk

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so myspace friend who ive never had a long conversation with (we hang out in the same circles) and i hit it off at the club the other night. at around 1am, her freind dragged her off to go home, but not before asking me to call her that very night. unfrotunately, i didnt have her number (which i didint realize at the time).

anyways, would it be weird to ask her for it now via myspace message?

along the lines of "hey i wanted to call you but i dididint have your number".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PHAT Rabbit said:
Why not?

I would use some callback humor though to ensure you get it...think about something you guys joked about last night and insert some kind of phrase or tidbit referring to it. Than I'd throw something out there like.."you're pretty cool shoot me over your number." Although it may not matter, I'd stay clear of something like "I really wanted to call you...but I didn't have you number", because can sound needy.

sounding needy was exactly what i was trying to avoid. it just sounded weird in my head no matter how i phrased it. thanks for hte advice though, exactly what i was looking for
 
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