"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asking a girl to prom

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Bjon

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Haven't talked to you forever. But anyway, two weeks is a decent amount of time. Better get a date soon or else it will be pushing it. When i went to my jr prom this year i asked her almost about exactly 2 weeks to the day before prom. It worked out perfectly. It was enough time for her to get her dress and everything. I had plenty of time to get all the stuff i needed, like the tux. So go for it dude.

I asked her by inviting her to go to a play at my school, she doesn't go to my school. She was going to come down with my friends from here and there. She knew i was going to be here, but didn't know I was going to ask her. Well i dressed in my suit and had flowers. I waited for her to get there, and when she did I walked up to her and hand her the flowers. Then i asked her, "________, would you go to prom with me?" She tried to look not surprised and super excited but she was and she said yes. It was all good

Good luck man.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ah prom. You guys are so lucky to be here (DJ board) at this point in your lives. When I was still in High School I was a complete WBAFC. There was only one girl I wanted to go to prom with. Of course she was my oneitis and it was so bad. She had a steady boyfriend, they were together for Jr. and Sr. years but I still wanted her. Obviously they went to prom together. I was so stuck on her it never occurred to me to ask any other girls. So I didn’t go to prom. God, I hated High School, don’t be like me.
 
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