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Whats an official asking a girl out and when do you become official boyfriend and girlfriend
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Asking a Girl Out
- Thread starter we all eat food
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Master Disaster
Master Don Juan
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just lock this.
The Master Disaster
Master Don Juan
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its not a good question. The first one doesn't make sense. The second one is an opinion. On top of it the guy makes the worst threads.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dimebag_Darrell
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NO NO NO! Stop polluting your brain with AMOG and start listening to DON JUAN BIBLE, DON JUAN TIPS, DIMEBAG DARRELL, etc..
Look, you never ask a girl out. Its simply the typical thing to do.
Now, simplify your ways and know that you don't always have to ASK her out. In other words, just let the bf-gf phase basically just fall in to the relationship.
What you need is to basically tell her that you think she's cool/fun/exciting to be with and would like to spend time with her. Always know where and when you want to spend time with her because it keeps sh*t clear. And when you have her at the fair/park/mcdonalds, you are almost half way there. Now you've stepped to level 2 in the process which is to get close to her. Kino, talking about intimate topics while keeping it light and fun is very helpful. If you and her are feeling the vibe, hold her hand and lead her to where ever you go together. Afterwards if you have any intelligence you know that you should raise the intimacy until you kiss her and f*ck her..boom badda bing. go get her man, she's waitin on ya!
Look, you never ask a girl out. Its simply the typical thing to do.
Now, simplify your ways and know that you don't always have to ASK her out. In other words, just let the bf-gf phase basically just fall in to the relationship.
What you need is to basically tell her that you think she's cool/fun/exciting to be with and would like to spend time with her. Always know where and when you want to spend time with her because it keeps sh*t clear. And when you have her at the fair/park/mcdonalds, you are almost half way there. Now you've stepped to level 2 in the process which is to get close to her. Kino, talking about intimate topics while keeping it light and fun is very helpful. If you and her are feeling the vibe, hold her hand and lead her to where ever you go together. Afterwards if you have any intelligence you know that you should raise the intimacy until you kiss her and f*ck her..boom badda bing. go get her man, she's waitin on ya!