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Senior Don Juan
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Whats an official asking a girl out and when do you become official boyfriend and girlfriend
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Asking a Girl Out
- Thread starter we all eat food
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Master Disaster
Master Don Juan
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just lock this.
The Master Disaster
Master Don Juan
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its not a good question. The first one doesn't make sense. The second one is an opinion. On top of it the guy makes the worst threads.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dimebag_Darrell
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NO NO NO! Stop polluting your brain with AMOG and start listening to DON JUAN BIBLE, DON JUAN TIPS, DIMEBAG DARRELL, etc..
Look, you never ask a girl out. Its simply the typical thing to do.
Now, simplify your ways and know that you don't always have to ASK her out. In other words, just let the bf-gf phase basically just fall in to the relationship.
What you need is to basically tell her that you think she's cool/fun/exciting to be with and would like to spend time with her. Always know where and when you want to spend time with her because it keeps sh*t clear. And when you have her at the fair/park/mcdonalds, you are almost half way there. Now you've stepped to level 2 in the process which is to get close to her. Kino, talking about intimate topics while keeping it light and fun is very helpful. If you and her are feeling the vibe, hold her hand and lead her to where ever you go together. Afterwards if you have any intelligence you know that you should raise the intimacy until you kiss her and f*ck her..boom badda bing. go get her man, she's waitin on ya!
Look, you never ask a girl out. Its simply the typical thing to do.
Now, simplify your ways and know that you don't always have to ASK her out. In other words, just let the bf-gf phase basically just fall in to the relationship.
What you need is to basically tell her that you think she's cool/fun/exciting to be with and would like to spend time with her. Always know where and when you want to spend time with her because it keeps sh*t clear. And when you have her at the fair/park/mcdonalds, you are almost half way there. Now you've stepped to level 2 in the process which is to get close to her. Kino, talking about intimate topics while keeping it light and fun is very helpful. If you and her are feeling the vibe, hold her hand and lead her to where ever you go together. Afterwards if you have any intelligence you know that you should raise the intimacy until you kiss her and f*ck her..boom badda bing. go get her man, she's waitin on ya!