"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi. I only registered yesterday but I've been lurking and reading for a while now. I think the general advice here about this is "dont really ask her out, take her on dates and she'll get the idea" but pretty much everybody here asks the girl out before doing anything. So maybe its an age thing, younger girls need to have it be 'official' or whatever, but anyways. Any tips on how to ask? I mean, if the chick likes you, even "Will you go out with me?" would probably work, but I'm sure there are better ways. Any ideas? Thanks
 

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Don't. Make it so that if she wants to go out, she'll get up the balls and do it herself. Take her on dates and stuff, but what's the point of being "official"?
 
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Originally posted by TheSplat
Don't. Make it so that if she wants to go out, she'll get up the balls and do it herself. Take her on dates and stuff, but what's the point of being "official"?
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Um, why? He isn't asking how to make her his girlfriend right off the bat, he's asking how to get her on dates. That's when you sort of ask her out...Call her up and just say "hey, I was going to *place* at *time* on *day*, want to join?"
 
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Actually, I was asking how to make her my girlfriend.. I got the date part covered. Sorry if i wasnt clear. So your advice is, dont?
 

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Originally posted by SmoothTalker
Actually, I was asking how to make her my girlfriend.. I got the date part covered. Sorry if i wasnt clear. So your advice is, dont?
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Oh...In that case, don't ask, just keep dating her and doing other stuff with her. Then it will be natural.
 
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