"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking a girl out?

SmoothTalker

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Hi. I only registered yesterday but I've been lurking and reading for a while now. I think the general advice here about this is "dont really ask her out, take her on dates and she'll get the idea" but pretty much everybody here asks the girl out before doing anything. So maybe its an age thing, younger girls need to have it be 'official' or whatever, but anyways. Any tips on how to ask? I mean, if the chick likes you, even "Will you go out with me?" would probably work, but I'm sure there are better ways. Any ideas? Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I am the Sherminator, a sophisticated Sex-Robot sent through time to change the future for one lucky lady.
 

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Don't. Make it so that if she wants to go out, she'll get up the balls and do it herself. Take her on dates and stuff, but what's the point of being "official"?
 

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Originally posted by TheSplat
Don't. Make it so that if she wants to go out, she'll get up the balls and do it herself. Take her on dates and stuff, but what's the point of being "official"?
Um, why? He isn't asking how to make her his girlfriend right off the bat, he's asking how to get her on dates. That's when you sort of ask her out...Call her up and just say "hey, I was going to *place* at *time* on *day*, want to join?"
 

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Actually, I was asking how to make her my girlfriend.. I got the date part covered. Sorry if i wasnt clear. So your advice is, dont?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by SmoothTalker
Actually, I was asking how to make her my girlfriend.. I got the date part covered. Sorry if i wasnt clear. So your advice is, dont?
Oh...In that case, don't ask, just keep dating her and doing other stuff with her. Then it will be natural.
 
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