"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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asking a girl out

jedimindtricks

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hey guys, i'm looking for a way to ask a girl out...like super cute **** girls like and all that good stuff. i'm into a long relationship with her and we've been talking for a bit now and she told me she wants a relationship but i wanted to make it special. flame on:box:

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How bout asking a girl to the prom? How should i say it? ****y with some humor? I don't wanna just say "(Name) would you like to go to the prom with me?" I think that sounds weak..I don't know why, but whats a good way to ask a girl to the prom?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was thinking though, if she really wants to go with me, she would say yes no matter how I asked her. I do like the hangman one, but I don't know...
Asking her like, "(Name) would you like to go to the prom with me?" sounds kind of wuss-like in my opinion because you are basically handing her the power and it makes you sound needy. I would like to ask around 2 1/2 months ahead, but I don't know when to ask her and how to ask her. I would say she has about a 25% to say yes anyway because it seems like in her eyes were are just friends, only friends, and will onlyever be friends...
 
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