"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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asking a girl out

jedimindtricks

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hey guys, i'm looking for a way to ask a girl out...like super cute **** girls like and all that good stuff. i'm into a long relationship with her and we've been talking for a bit now and she told me she wants a relationship but i wanted to make it special. flame on:box:

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How bout asking a girl to the prom? How should i say it? ****y with some humor? I don't wanna just say "(Name) would you like to go to the prom with me?" I think that sounds weak..I don't know why, but whats a good way to ask a girl to the prom?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was thinking though, if she really wants to go with me, she would say yes no matter how I asked her. I do like the hangman one, but I don't know...
Asking her like, "(Name) would you like to go to the prom with me?" sounds kind of wuss-like in my opinion because you are basically handing her the power and it makes you sound needy. I would like to ask around 2 1/2 months ahead, but I don't know when to ask her and how to ask her. I would say she has about a 25% to say yes anyway because it seems like in her eyes were are just friends, only friends, and will onlyever be friends...
 
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