Asking a girl out for lunc otmorrow..am I using the right approach or am I TOO FAST?

[cluelessasian]

Its a continuation from this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82207

I had lunch with her in the company cafe together with her friends. Had some great conversation and she asked me several questions as well like "how i am doing" "why did you choose to work here" "where are you from etc"

So tomorrow I am going up to her cube tomorrow morning to have a short conversation and then just mention about going out for lunch sometimes during the week..

Do you guys think i am on the right track?

 

[Derek Flint]

Dating women you work with is a really bad idea.

 

[MercutioTHEGREAT]

your good homie.

 

[benassi]

eh, yeah you got it, make it a quickie, fcuking ur coworkers can be mad good until **** breaks down.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Hey cluelessasian, who gives a sh!t?

BTW, Thanks for sending me that private message telling me how my grandparents fcked my mother. That's brilliant coming from a cute little girley boy who thinks he's a man.

 

[flexion_]

You are in the friendzone. No you aren't on the right track. Having lunch with and her and her co-workers has nothing to do with dating.

And to top it off you doing all this crap at work.

 

[griffon65]

^^ Ignore that. You arent in the friend zone. I think some guys take that a little too seriously. Its not that easy unless your being a total idoit. Well I guess most guys are total idoits lol. But from what I read you have done everything pretty right.

so far shes shown you interest. Ask her to hang out with you and make it clear that its a date. Like tell her that "you want to take her out to dinner" not "have dinner with her" which can mean its not a date.