"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Asking a girl back at a club and she says no!

d9930380

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So the question is; How long before you bail and move on to the next girl?

Girls love company/attention at clubs and just because you're getting "on well" with her doesn't mean it will come to anything if you hang in there till the end of the night, you might get the number then but we all know that numbers at clubs aren't that great anyway. So the next option is to wait 10 mins and make another attempt or try to get a number close at least before moving on or just go for a number close and move on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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drmeathead

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move on...go **** her friend. no but really dont stand around. remember you never go home alone if you go home with your pride.
 

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remember the Rule 'FOR EVERY ONE GAL THAT REJECTS YOU THERE ARE DOZEN SOMEWHERE WHO ARE WILLING TO RIP OF YOUR CLOTHES AND HAVE THEIR WOMANLY WAY WITH YOU" so next her......thanks to Fingz,lol
 

TruthHurts

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actually thats wrong...

afrojiggles said:
remember the Rule 'FOR EVERY ONE GAL THAT REJECTS YOU THERE ARE DOZEN SOMEWHERE WHO ARE WILLING TO RIP OF YOUR CLOTHES AND HAVE THEIR WOMANLY WAY WITH YOU"
actually..for every one gal that rejects you ther are dozen somewhere who will ALSO REJECT YOU! :) hahahha..thats the truth.. but so what...
listen... if a girl really interested in you she would not reject you and play hard to get, thats wishfull thinking.. think about it, would she do that to Brat Pit..

Next her, dont even say anything.. just move on, as if you turned the channel.
i.e. i used to after rejecting feel the need for closer, i.e. okay well see you around, or well your cute anyways... not even necessary,,,,just move on to next... cause she obviously dont give a f.ck about you, so why should u...
 

afrojiggles

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mmmm........same script different versions,lol:kick:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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