"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Asking a girl back at a club and she says no!

d9930380

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So the question is; How long before you bail and move on to the next girl?

Girls love company/attention at clubs and just because you're getting "on well" with her doesn't mean it will come to anything if you hang in there till the end of the night, you might get the number then but we all know that numbers at clubs aren't that great anyway. So the next option is to wait 10 mins and make another attempt or try to get a number close at least before moving on or just go for a number close and move on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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drmeathead

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move on...go **** her friend. no but really dont stand around. remember you never go home alone if you go home with your pride.
 

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remember the Rule 'FOR EVERY ONE GAL THAT REJECTS YOU THERE ARE DOZEN SOMEWHERE WHO ARE WILLING TO RIP OF YOUR CLOTHES AND HAVE THEIR WOMANLY WAY WITH YOU" so next her......thanks to Fingz,lol
 

TruthHurts

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actually thats wrong...

afrojiggles said:
remember the Rule 'FOR EVERY ONE GAL THAT REJECTS YOU THERE ARE DOZEN SOMEWHERE WHO ARE WILLING TO RIP OF YOUR CLOTHES AND HAVE THEIR WOMANLY WAY WITH YOU"
actually..for every one gal that rejects you ther are dozen somewhere who will ALSO REJECT YOU! :) hahahha..thats the truth.. but so what...
listen... if a girl really interested in you she would not reject you and play hard to get, thats wishfull thinking.. think about it, would she do that to Brat Pit..

Next her, dont even say anything.. just move on, as if you turned the channel.
i.e. i used to after rejecting feel the need for closer, i.e. okay well see you around, or well your cute anyways... not even necessary,,,,just move on to next... cause she obviously dont give a f.ck about you, so why should u...
 

afrojiggles

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mmmm........same script different versions,lol:kick:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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