"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Asked girl out, what should I do with her response?

Rambo92

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Got talking to this girl on a dating website and decided to not talk too much, but flirt etc and get things initiated sooner than later. Anyway I did that, but she is busy working and will let me know when she is free when she gets her new rota.

Here was the end of the conversation:

Girl: Hahaha I need a bit of your predicting power!!
Me: What would you like them for? Be sensible :p
Girl: I would like to know where will I stay next year in june!
Me: You'll be in Manchester, because I'll still be taking you to all the cool places
Girl: Oh yes!
Girl: I like that prediction!
Me: How about I take you to your first cool place, and take you out Thursday if you're free?
Girl: I'm working from today until Saturday, and I'm on standby on Sunday. So when I see the new rota I'll let you know when I'm off.

So what should I reply with? Should I keep contact going until she mentions it? Or should I just wait for her to let me know?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alvafe

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nothing, wait for her tell you when she is free, with I belive will not happen.
 

dustmuffin

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Just wait move on she might come back maybe not....so forget about it and next....just text...ok let me know when you are free. That's it and go on
 

Ben lozano

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Got talking to this girl on a dating website and decided to not talk too much, but flirt etc and get things initiated sooner than later. Anyway I did that, but she is busy working and will let me know when she is free when she gets her new rota.

Here was the end of the conversation:

Girl: Hahaha I need a bit of your predicting power!!
Me: What would you like them for? Be sensible :p
Girl: I would like to know where will I stay next year in june!
Me: You'll be in Manchester, because I'll still be taking you to all the cool places
Girl: Oh yes!
Girl: I like that prediction!
Me: How about I take you to your first cool place, and take you out Thursday if you're free?
Girl: I'm working from today until Saturday, and I'm on standby on Sunday. So when I see the new rota I'll let you know when I'm off.

So what should I reply with? Should I keep contact going until she mentions it? Or should I just wait for her to let me know?

The first thing I thought about her last reply is she’s just being polite! But after thinking it through, It seems like an honest response from her. Maybe she’s interested and just testing your patience. So don’t lose hope., yet…

For the mean time check out this article I’ve read: http://www.mensaxis.com/how-to-be-more-attractive-to-women/. It tackles about proper grooming and reading body languages and signals you should look out for in a girl.

Also this one: http://www.mensfitness.com/women/dating-advice/7-ways-to-get-her-to-like-you which basically tells you how to be a gentleman.

Maybe you’ll pick a trick or two. I know because I did. ☺

Good luck!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wait for a response until after she's supposedly free plus one extra day. Late in the evening on that extra day, if you've got no response, then ask if she's still busy. If no, make plans. If yes, move on. If no response, move on. If unclear gibberish, move on don't even answer to that.
 

marmel75

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Don't see anything wrong with it...I have had many chicks tell me something similar and then text me and let me know when they were free once they got their schedules. Nothing to see here, move along. Basically wait for her to text you and let you know when she is free. I sense you must be pretty inexperienced with that question because its honestly pretty basic. I don't even sense she was throwing you a curveball with that response, it was a changeup down the middle.

In the meantime keep working on more women. You should ideally be going on at least 3 dates per week, more if you have the time. Prevents you from focusing on any one woman too strongly, which prevents you from developing one-itis.
 
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