"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asked girl out, what should I do with her response?

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Got talking to this girl on a dating website and decided to not talk too much, but flirt etc and get things initiated sooner than later. Anyway I did that, but she is busy working and will let me know when she is free when she gets her new rota.

Here was the end of the conversation:

Girl: Hahaha I need a bit of your predicting power!!
Me: What would you like them for? Be sensible :p
Girl: I would like to know where will I stay next year in june!
Me: You'll be in Manchester, because I'll still be taking you to all the cool places
Girl: Oh yes!
Girl: I like that prediction!
Me: How about I take you to your first cool place, and take you out Thursday if you're free?
Girl: I'm working from today until Saturday, and I'm on standby on Sunday. So when I see the new rota I'll let you know when I'm off.

So what should I reply with? Should I keep contact going until she mentions it? Or should I just wait for her to let me know?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alvafe

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nothing, wait for her tell you when she is free, with I belive will not happen.
 

dustmuffin

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Just wait move on she might come back maybe not....so forget about it and next....just text...ok let me know when you are free. That's it and go on
 

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Got talking to this girl on a dating website and decided to not talk too much, but flirt etc and get things initiated sooner than later. Anyway I did that, but she is busy working and will let me know when she is free when she gets her new rota.

Here was the end of the conversation:

Girl: Hahaha I need a bit of your predicting power!!
Me: What would you like them for? Be sensible :p
Girl: I would like to know where will I stay next year in june!
Me: You'll be in Manchester, because I'll still be taking you to all the cool places
Girl: Oh yes!
Girl: I like that prediction!
Me: How about I take you to your first cool place, and take you out Thursday if you're free?
Girl: I'm working from today until Saturday, and I'm on standby on Sunday. So when I see the new rota I'll let you know when I'm off.

So what should I reply with? Should I keep contact going until she mentions it? Or should I just wait for her to let me know?

The first thing I thought about her last reply is she’s just being polite! But after thinking it through, It seems like an honest response from her. Maybe she’s interested and just testing your patience. So don’t lose hope., yet…

For the mean time check out this article I’ve read: http://www.mensaxis.com/how-to-be-more-attractive-to-women/. It tackles about proper grooming and reading body languages and signals you should look out for in a girl.

Also this one: http://www.mensfitness.com/women/dating-advice/7-ways-to-get-her-to-like-you which basically tells you how to be a gentleman.

Maybe you’ll pick a trick or two. I know because I did. ☺

Good luck!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wait for a response until after she's supposedly free plus one extra day. Late in the evening on that extra day, if you've got no response, then ask if she's still busy. If no, make plans. If yes, move on. If no response, move on. If unclear gibberish, move on don't even answer to that.
 

marmel75

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Don't see anything wrong with it...I have had many chicks tell me something similar and then text me and let me know when they were free once they got their schedules. Nothing to see here, move along. Basically wait for her to text you and let you know when she is free. I sense you must be pretty inexperienced with that question because its honestly pretty basic. I don't even sense she was throwing you a curveball with that response, it was a changeup down the middle.

In the meantime keep working on more women. You should ideally be going on at least 3 dates per week, more if you have the time. Prevents you from focusing on any one woman too strongly, which prevents you from developing one-itis.
 
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