"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Asked girl out, said no, turned out she liked me.

Tornado2

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this is weird. I asked this one chick out a few months ago, she declined. Then one of her friends was talking to me (at the time I didn't know who she was), and she asked me if I knew who the girl was. I said yeah, I even asked her out, but she said she had a boyfriend. Well that girl went back and told her.... and she came back and told me that she liked me... I just didn't try hard enough.

wtf does that mean?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who really knows what conversation these two girls had? You asked her out and she declined - thats all you need to know.

If she is too stupid to accept the date trying to play some game then she isn't worth your time.

Either way - move on and don't worry about it.
 

Tazman

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Yeah man, you don't need to play stupid games like this. It's hard enough for some guys to suck up their pride and ask a girl out, let alone do it, and have her refuse, only to later claim she was interested but you didn't try hard enough? She wants a puppy, not a guy.

If she wants to go out, have it be on your terms since she couldn't handle a normal person asking her out.

In case you were wondering, yes this has happened to me, although the girl didn't say I didn't try hard enough. I don't know what her problem was, her loss.
 

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I'm guessing you are a DJ and knew what you did.. followed the basics and all.

She's a *****.

*****, slut, whatever... she's that. You don't need that kind of **** in your life.
 

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A few months ago and you still pondering about it? She got you good man :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I'm guessing you are a DJ and knew what you did.. followed the basics and all.

She's a *****.

*****, slut, whatever... she's that. You don't need that kind of **** in your life.
you might not know this but hes 15,hes probably still in middle school
 

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Re: Re: Asked girl out, said no, turned out she liked me.

Originally posted by The_Shezzler
It means that she liked you...but you didnt try hard enough mate lol.

You probably came over as too AFC, thats why she gave you the boyfriend line.

Theres another 4 billion women out there mate - why are you concerned with this one - just posting this should make you realise why she gave you the excuse in the first place.

Let it go mate

Sarge On...
Your advice sucks ass like usual. What a load of unexperienced **** you just spewed.

The girl is obviously ****ed in the head. She has a lot of mental baggage.

-Sarge Online
 

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go tell your friend to THANK the girl for making up an excuse becuase you've met a bunch of awesome chics in the meantime that you might not otherwise have met.

lesson number 1

Chics who lie with ch*t like "i have a bf" are mentally screwed to kingdom come.

the AFC move would have been to chase after her after she told you she had a bf.

you weren't AFC in the least.

you asked, they say no, you move on.

kudos, you did the right thing.

J
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey Shezz, I didn't know it was so easy to ruffle you! ;) (Doing my best ****ney) Tell me ya knot lyke thaat with the laydees? Thicker skin mate!

Pose on!!:) ;)
 
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