"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Asked for my FIRST phone #

Precursor

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I was talking to this pretty girl i've really like during passing period (when we leave class to go to another) Out of no where, i get the idea that "i should ask for her #". so 3 seconds later, i actually do it. "hey, its a long weekend, give me your number" i just said it, without thinking, cause we were about to separate. and then she goes like "we'll talk online" WTF!! lol damn it. she always messags me online but i rarely reply because i'm just too caught up in other things.

I'm assuming this is a rejection. And it felt good to ask. Should be easier the 2nd time. Maybe i should of started with a "practice chicK" instead of going straight to the beautiful one, but the awesome thing is, it didn't bother me at all. my ego remained intact.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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THE_ADDMAN

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atta boy!

now say it with me:

SUPER SUAVE!
 

KillaCam

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Top stuff bro.

Breaking down barriers is a great thing. Make sure it's the first approach of many :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FM 3321

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Congrats on asking for the number. It may seem like a small thing but the majority of guys don't have the guts to ask for the number. Plus your delivery was awesome.
 

GaryUranga

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the first time I asked a girl for her number I actually didnt do it, I actually just lets this not good lookin chick send a txt using my cell (emergency) and then I dont remember what happened but I said something and she THOUGHT I was asking for her number, anyways I was like "uhhh ok, no" she was really exited, way to turn things around.
 
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