"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Asked for my FIRST phone #

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I was talking to this pretty girl i've really like during passing period (when we leave class to go to another) Out of no where, i get the idea that "i should ask for her #". so 3 seconds later, i actually do it. "hey, its a long weekend, give me your number" i just said it, without thinking, cause we were about to separate. and then she goes like "we'll talk online" WTF!! lol damn it. she always messags me online but i rarely reply because i'm just too caught up in other things.

I'm assuming this is a rejection. And it felt good to ask. Should be easier the 2nd time. Maybe i should of started with a "practice chicK" instead of going straight to the beautiful one, but the awesome thing is, it didn't bother me at all. my ego remained intact.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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atta boy!

now say it with me:

SUPER SUAVE!
 
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Top stuff bro.

Breaking down barriers is a great thing. Make sure it's the first approach of many :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Congrats on asking for the number. It may seem like a small thing but the majority of guys don't have the guts to ask for the number. Plus your delivery was awesome.
 
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the first time I asked a girl for her number I actually didnt do it, I actually just lets this not good lookin chick send a txt using my cell (emergency) and then I dont remember what happened but I said something and she THOUGHT I was asking for her number, anyways I was like "uhhh ok, no" she was really exited, way to turn things around.
 
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