Asked for her number then this happened...

[iKissAndTell]

Hey guys. First post here! I hope to get some good value from this site. I've read a few of the other people posting here and decided to make an account because it feels safe here

I've been messaging this girl on Snapchat. In a nutshell... she always responds and has called me daddy, cute, etc.. she once said I low key gave her Christian Grey vibes which I thought was funny lol...

Anyway,

Today I sent her this message in a playful tone trying to move the conversation forward, "So... *name* are you gonna give me that number... or..."

She responded with "Duhh!" But never gave me her number...

Now I'm thinking she's playing games and just using me for her own ego. I don't know. What do you guys think ?

I could VERY easily drop her and move on to someone else as I have a couple other girls I'm talking to and also could just as easily strike up a conversation with someone new... but I definitely wouldn't mind dating this girl.

Should I call her out on her games ?
Tell her I'm thinking of seeing other people ?
Ask her for advice on another girl ?
Ghost on her ?
Something else ?

Thanks!!

 

[marmel75]

Anytime you are in a situation where you don't know what to do the answer is to stop worrying about her and go find other women. If you are like most guys you are just lazy and think it's easier to try and get somewhere with a woman you are already talking with than it is with a total stranger. But this is simply wrong. How long it takes for you to end up from inital contact to fvcking a woman is typically in direct proportion to their interest level in you.

So the answer to any question like this is to simply find other women who are more interested in you.

 

[icantgetlaid]

Don't invest anymore time into her. Let her initiate conversation with you, and your only response should be a phone number/date request. In the mean time, find other girls with higher interest in you. This girl is trying to make you her time ho.

 

[iKissAndTell]

Thanks for the hits!!

 

[TheGambino]

Thanks for the hits!!

Live your name, be a man with a plan. Ask her out, anything other then Yes is a no. Erase, replace, find other prospects.

 

[Glassguy]

I think this chick is definitely interested and is being playful.

I would say "Hey gotta run. I'd like to continue this later. Text me 555-555-5555"

After that I wouldnt open anymore of her snaps or send any until she texted me. Make her invest or move on.

 

[MatureDJ]

It's been my experience that in virtually every worthwhile episode with a woman, early on, the woman made a clear gesture of interest. I know that it's the macho thing to be the pusher, but much more important that simply being rejected is the cost of time & energy (and cash, if that's the case) devoted to a woman with low interest. Now, this isn't to say that aggressively engaging women is a waste; it's not. But these days, I only pursue women that seem to be devoting some effort to chase me; I just don't feel like it's worth my energy otherwise.

 

[amaterasu]

I think this chick is definitely interested and is being playful.

I would say "Hey gotta run. I'd like to continue this later. Text me 555-555-5555"

After that I wouldnt open anymore of her snaps or send any until she texted me. Make her invest or move on.

I agree, be a man and put an immediate closure on your bullshht snapchat conversation that goes anywhere else.

Define your goal with this chick, but it has to be you attracting her. So do the thing above.

 

[casanova_goat]

It's been my experience that in virtually every worthwhile episode with a woman, early on, the woman made a clear gesture of interest. I know that it's the macho thing to be the pusher, but much more important that simply being rejected is the cost of time & energy (and cash, if that's the case) devoted to a woman with low interest. Now, this isn't to say that aggressively engaging women is a waste; it's not. But these days, I only pursue women that seem to be devoting some effort to chase me; I just don't feel like it's worth my energy otherwise.

Agree with this 100% -- from my experience, you can not "game" a disinterested woman into liking you. I've approached upwards of 1,000 women in my life and the only ones I've ever had any modicum of success with manifested unambiguous interest from the outset.