"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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asked for a light got a number?

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friday night i was workin (retail) and i girl came in and bought sum stuff. anyway after she left i went to smoke and as she was gettin into the car asked if she had a light. had off the next 3 days, come back and a letter was left for me saturday morning. it had a card thingy and a lighter... lol on the card it said "still need a light?" and on the other side said "i was thinkin how to do this so call me?" leaves name and number on card. any ideas or anything? should i call or what? i just got the letter 2day
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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friday night i was workin (retail) and i girl came in and bought sum stuff. anyway after she left i went to smoke and as she was gettin into the card asked if she had a light. had off teh next 3 days come back and a letter was left for me saturday morning. i had a card thingy and a lighter... lol on the card it said "still need a light?" and on the other side said "i was thinkin how to do this so call me?" leaves name and number on card. any ideas or anything? should i call or what? i just got the letter 2day
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WOW. I've never heard of anything like that before. That's actually pretty impressive. That way she could show her interest,and if it turns out you weren't interested,she could at the same time avoid a painful rejection.

You're asking should you call? Of course you should call her...and don't wait 4 or 5 days before you do. I'd at the minimum skip 1 day. Call her up,let her know that the way she left you her number was cool and that it impressed you....but DON'T ASK HER OUT. Not yet. Talk a little while,generate some attraction (there's plenty of info here on the forum to help you do that). Build some attraction,then a little bit of comfort,THEN ask her out. But don't "ask" her,tell her about some place you already had plans to go to (somewhere public,so she'll feel safe),and TELL her to come up there with you,or to meet you there.

I say TELL instead of asking because "telling" someone to do something is you demonstrating authority,whereas "asking" is you attemping to get someone's permission,which puts the other person in authority over you.

This is good stuff right here man. I've had girls ask me out before,but never anything as creative as this.

I think I'm a little jealous :D.

Good luck man.
 
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Work on your english man, I can barely tell what happened.
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my bad i was short handing it and rushing. so update. i texted her to introduce myself. then i tell her that im a lil busy at the moment and that ill call her back later tonight. her response was. ok..im at work anyways. just know there is no obligation to fulfil.good luck with your stuff coffin!
 
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need a lil feedback is this like a test or is she sayin she dont want to talk
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stop being a *****.

SHE left YOU a note indicating interest. She handed the power to you on a platter. Now you have, instead of calling her like a man, texted her 'introducing yourself'? I don't get that. Just grab your nuts and do what you want with her. Don't question this forum or yourself just do it. If it works out so be it, if not then so be it. Don't sacrifice who you are for some poon...

Goodluck.
 
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Hahah thats actually a pretty smooth move on her part.

But yea def go for it cuz she wants you.
 
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called her and all i can say is she is very interested...
 
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called her and all i can say is she is very interested...
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That's nice. Umm....you think you could give us a little more detail? You know,what you said to her,what she said to you,little stuff like that?

You're not really giving us a lot to go on here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yes you should thats an opportunity right there that might work for you. i always like it when a girl chases after you it just makes the job a lot easier you know...
 
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