"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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asked for a light got a number?

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friday night i was workin (retail) and i girl came in and bought sum stuff. anyway after she left i went to smoke and as she was gettin into the car asked if she had a light. had off the next 3 days, come back and a letter was left for me saturday morning. it had a card thingy and a lighter... lol on the card it said "still need a light?" and on the other side said "i was thinkin how to do this so call me?" leaves name and number on card. any ideas or anything? should i call or what? i just got the letter 2day
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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friday night i was workin (retail) and i girl came in and bought sum stuff. anyway after she left i went to smoke and as she was gettin into the card asked if she had a light. had off teh next 3 days come back and a letter was left for me saturday morning. i had a card thingy and a lighter... lol on the card it said "still need a light?" and on the other side said "i was thinkin how to do this so call me?" leaves name and number on card. any ideas or anything? should i call or what? i just got the letter 2day
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WOW. I've never heard of anything like that before. That's actually pretty impressive. That way she could show her interest,and if it turns out you weren't interested,she could at the same time avoid a painful rejection.

You're asking should you call? Of course you should call her...and don't wait 4 or 5 days before you do. I'd at the minimum skip 1 day. Call her up,let her know that the way she left you her number was cool and that it impressed you....but DON'T ASK HER OUT. Not yet. Talk a little while,generate some attraction (there's plenty of info here on the forum to help you do that). Build some attraction,then a little bit of comfort,THEN ask her out. But don't "ask" her,tell her about some place you already had plans to go to (somewhere public,so she'll feel safe),and TELL her to come up there with you,or to meet you there.

I say TELL instead of asking because "telling" someone to do something is you demonstrating authority,whereas "asking" is you attemping to get someone's permission,which puts the other person in authority over you.

This is good stuff right here man. I've had girls ask me out before,but never anything as creative as this.

I think I'm a little jealous :D.

Good luck man.
 
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Work on your english man, I can barely tell what happened.
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my bad i was short handing it and rushing. so update. i texted her to introduce myself. then i tell her that im a lil busy at the moment and that ill call her back later tonight. her response was. ok..im at work anyways. just know there is no obligation to fulfil.good luck with your stuff coffin!
 
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need a lil feedback is this like a test or is she sayin she dont want to talk
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stop being a *****.

SHE left YOU a note indicating interest. She handed the power to you on a platter. Now you have, instead of calling her like a man, texted her 'introducing yourself'? I don't get that. Just grab your nuts and do what you want with her. Don't question this forum or yourself just do it. If it works out so be it, if not then so be it. Don't sacrifice who you are for some poon...

Goodluck.
 
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Hahah thats actually a pretty smooth move on her part.

But yea def go for it cuz she wants you.
 
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called her and all i can say is she is very interested...
 
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called her and all i can say is she is very interested...
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That's nice. Umm....you think you could give us a little more detail? You know,what you said to her,what she said to you,little stuff like that?

You're not really giving us a lot to go on here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yes you should thats an opportunity right there that might work for you. i always like it when a girl chases after you it just makes the job a lot easier you know...
 
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