Recently, it's happened that we are looking at a lot of situational advice or little comments on this forum, and nothing on theory or actual process. That's okay, but what this tells me is that some of you are just here for one girl, or one situation, and once you fail there, you will never return.
What this also raises is a very important question.
It's been asked before, but think about this in terms of YOU and YOUR HAPPINESS: Why are you really here?
I think that some people here are simply trying to make themselves happy through obtaining that 'one special girl', or by cycling through countless women on a weekly basis. That is all well and good, but really, how does this make you feel?
Personally, I think that we should be examining what really causes you to feel happy, and pleased with yourself. It shouldn't be that you need the approval of others (i.e. a girlfriend) to feel any sense of worth.
When was the last time you truly felt happy?
What made you feel this way?
How does it feel when you're talking with others, not to win their approval or affection, but just to relate and share?
What happens when you simply stop trying to use petty 'techniques' or stop running elaborate sets of tricks on women to try to attract them?
Have you ever really just done what you want to do, when you want to, and told anyone who objected that it was none of their business, no matter who they were?
Guys, be independent and proud of yourselves. You shouldn't need a woman to have fun in life, and neither should you need the total approval of everyone around you. Try, even if for one day, to live for yourself and what really makes YOU happy, not what the things everyone tells you SHOULD make you happy.
Take it easy, guys.
What this also raises is a very important question.
It's been asked before, but think about this in terms of YOU and YOUR HAPPINESS: Why are you really here?
I think that some people here are simply trying to make themselves happy through obtaining that 'one special girl', or by cycling through countless women on a weekly basis. That is all well and good, but really, how does this make you feel?
Personally, I think that we should be examining what really causes you to feel happy, and pleased with yourself. It shouldn't be that you need the approval of others (i.e. a girlfriend) to feel any sense of worth.
When was the last time you truly felt happy?
What made you feel this way?
How does it feel when you're talking with others, not to win their approval or affection, but just to relate and share?
What happens when you simply stop trying to use petty 'techniques' or stop running elaborate sets of tricks on women to try to attract them?
Have you ever really just done what you want to do, when you want to, and told anyone who objected that it was none of their business, no matter who they were?
Guys, be independent and proud of yourselves. You shouldn't need a woman to have fun in life, and neither should you need the total approval of everyone around you. Try, even if for one day, to live for yourself and what really makes YOU happy, not what the things everyone tells you SHOULD make you happy.
Take it easy, guys.
