"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ask in Person Or Over A Text..

gomariners51

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What should i do, i want to ask this girl and her and her roommates want to go get ice cream tomorrow (im asking if the roommates want to come becuase she has been saying i need to meet them and suggested we get ice cream so i can meet them) Should i ask in person tomorrow or over a call or a text?
-any tips or pointers on how i can make a good impression on the roommates

Is it a good idea to have them come, i think it would be so they can see what kind of a guy i am and something fun to do
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In person is always best. Next would be calling. Never use TXT.
 

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Dude you already started a thread like this the other day with the same questions and we told you what to do in that one. Here we go again.

gomariners51 said:
What should i do, i want to ask this girl and her and her roommates want to go get ice cream tomorrow (im asking if the roommates want to come becuase she has been saying i need to meet them and suggested we get ice cream so i can meet them)

No you don't ask her to bring her friends. You go one on one with her for the longest time until she get weak knees thinking about you. Why would you bring her friends if her friends can cause 201 distractions when you want to kiss her?

Should i ask in person tomorrow or over a call or a text?

In person. Text says "My ego can't take it if you reject me."

Is it a good idea to have them come, i think it would be so they can see what kind of a guy i am and something fun to do

Who gives a damn what they think? Are you sleeping with them? Are you trying to see them naked? They could think you are Brad + Beckham combined. If she doesn't, you're done.
I don't know dude, sounds to me like you are already in the friend zone. If she wants to bring her friends, she doesn't seem to want to be alone with you.
 

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you think im friendzoned already? lets say that i am, im not sure if i am or am not, what is a good way to see if i am or am not?
 
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