"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ask in Person Or Over A Text..

gomariners51

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What should i do, i want to ask this girl and her and her roommates want to go get ice cream tomorrow (im asking if the roommates want to come becuase she has been saying i need to meet them and suggested we get ice cream so i can meet them) Should i ask in person tomorrow or over a call or a text?
-any tips or pointers on how i can make a good impression on the roommates

Is it a good idea to have them come, i think it would be so they can see what kind of a guy i am and something fun to do
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In person is always best. Next would be calling. Never use TXT.
 

DonJuan11

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Dude you already started a thread like this the other day with the same questions and we told you what to do in that one. Here we go again.

gomariners51 said:
What should i do, i want to ask this girl and her and her roommates want to go get ice cream tomorrow (im asking if the roommates want to come becuase she has been saying i need to meet them and suggested we get ice cream so i can meet them)

No you don't ask her to bring her friends. You go one on one with her for the longest time until she get weak knees thinking about you. Why would you bring her friends if her friends can cause 201 distractions when you want to kiss her?

Should i ask in person tomorrow or over a call or a text?

In person. Text says "My ego can't take it if you reject me."

Is it a good idea to have them come, i think it would be so they can see what kind of a guy i am and something fun to do

Who gives a damn what they think? Are you sleeping with them? Are you trying to see them naked? They could think you are Brad + Beckham combined. If she doesn't, you're done.
I don't know dude, sounds to me like you are already in the friend zone. If she wants to bring her friends, she doesn't seem to want to be alone with you.
 

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you think im friendzoned already? lets say that i am, im not sure if i am or am not, what is a good way to see if i am or am not?
 
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