"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ask her out?

TheNewGuy

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Alright, I met a girl that lives in my neighboring town on MySpace. I talked to her on AIM today (sent her a friend request yesterday) and we had a decent convo. I was able to use some c&f, but i'm still new at this so I didn't really use as much as I should've. Plus it's even harder to do it via AIM, rather than person to person... but whatever.

So we had a decent convo and she seems that's she's interested a bit, i'm definetly interested. I'm thinking, tomorrow, to be like

"Hey, you doing anything tonight?"
"No"
"Alright, cool, we're gonna go to the mall"

But I think it might be too early. It's not like I can say that I'm going with my friends and she can tag along, because all my friends already have plans tomorrow night.

So, long story short: Should I ask her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vincent

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You can't use ****y and funny on the internet. You used what's called sarcasm. ****y and funny is something that you communicate, not chat.

If you're going to ask her out do it over the phone.
 

TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by Vincent
You can't use ****y and funny on the internet. You used what's called sarcasm. ****y and funny is something that you communicate, not chat.

If you're going to ask her out do it over the phone.
Well, ****y+funny in text version? I always thought c&f to be a form of sarcasm...
 

DJ4Real

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****y and Funny simply means communicating in some what of a sarcastic way and tone. You can use the ****y Funny technique online. But, it won't be nearly as effective as in person or over the phone.

Never ASK a girl out.

Everything has to be implied in the right fashion.

Be ****y and Funny.

For example..

Her: Do you want to go clothes shopping with me?

You: Only if your buying things for me. I don't trust you to do my shopping.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
don't act suprised when is a 42 year old balding fat man.
...

I hope english isn't your first language...
 
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