"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ask her out?

TheNewGuy

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Alright, I met a girl that lives in my neighboring town on MySpace. I talked to her on AIM today (sent her a friend request yesterday) and we had a decent convo. I was able to use some c&f, but i'm still new at this so I didn't really use as much as I should've. Plus it's even harder to do it via AIM, rather than person to person... but whatever.

So we had a decent convo and she seems that's she's interested a bit, i'm definetly interested. I'm thinking, tomorrow, to be like

"Hey, you doing anything tonight?"
"No"
"Alright, cool, we're gonna go to the mall"

But I think it might be too early. It's not like I can say that I'm going with my friends and she can tag along, because all my friends already have plans tomorrow night.

So, long story short: Should I ask her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vincent

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You can't use ****y and funny on the internet. You used what's called sarcasm. ****y and funny is something that you communicate, not chat.

If you're going to ask her out do it over the phone.
 

TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by Vincent
You can't use ****y and funny on the internet. You used what's called sarcasm. ****y and funny is something that you communicate, not chat.

If you're going to ask her out do it over the phone.
Well, ****y+funny in text version? I always thought c&f to be a form of sarcasm...
 

DJ4Real

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****y and Funny simply means communicating in some what of a sarcastic way and tone. You can use the ****y Funny technique online. But, it won't be nearly as effective as in person or over the phone.

Never ASK a girl out.

Everything has to be implied in the right fashion.

Be ****y and Funny.

For example..

Her: Do you want to go clothes shopping with me?

You: Only if your buying things for me. I don't trust you to do my shopping.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
don't act suprised when is a 42 year old balding fat man.
...

I hope english isn't your first language...
 
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