"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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escaleraroyal

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How to ask her out on the phone?

I usually go.
Hey this is joe, how is it going?

How was your day?

Are you free tomorrow or wednesday to have a coffee?


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Desdinova

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If I'm meeting her for the first time, I usually say "Well, I gotta go, but we should continue this conversation. Why don't you give me your number and we'll set something up."

If I already have her number, it's more like "We should do something together. How does xxxday evening sound?" If she asks what we should do, I always have something planned. "Well, there's this glow-in-the-dark mini golf place I've been meaning to check out. How about that?"

These work much better than "you wanna go out with me?"
 

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escaleraroyal said:
how do you transfer her from mini golf to your room?
Usually by car.

But seriously... I don't mean to sound like an a$$hole here, but you need to read the DJ Bible. The problem with that question is that it would take way too long to give a proper answer here. You need to create an understanding of what to do when, not go by a bullet point list anyone on this particular thread can give. You have been here since early 2008, and this is a very basic question. However, the answer is not.

One thing I can say: kino.
 
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