"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ask her out as soon as you can after building rapport

GeeMale

GeeMale

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Because if you get rejected(she's married, bf, 'busy' etc) than you'll be feeling dumb you waited all this exciting time only to waste the excitement energy ..

And even if she isn't you kind of wasted time that you could've been on 1-2+ dates already.

Letting time go by from when you first met a chick that showed interest ...kills the intial attraction
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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touma.akagi

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Absolutely, my guy... you ask her early so that you know whether to spend any more time. The petty ones will reveal themselves to be so when they act all offended that you asked her.

If nothing else, "we should do something sometime" and ask around a week later
 
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