"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ask her out as soon as you can after building rapport

GeeMale

GeeMale

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Because if you get rejected(she's married, bf, 'busy' etc) than you'll be feeling dumb you waited all this exciting time only to waste the excitement energy ..

And even if she isn't you kind of wasted time that you could've been on 1-2+ dates already.

Letting time go by from when you first met a chick that showed interest ...kills the intial attraction
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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touma.akagi

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Absolutely, my guy... you ask her early so that you know whether to spend any more time. The petty ones will reveal themselves to be so when they act all offended that you asked her.

If nothing else, "we should do something sometime" and ask around a week later
 
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