"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ask her out AGAIN!

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Pr0lab

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Hey People!

I have had an experience last summer with a girl when I met her at a party, added her on facebook and invited her for a coffee.
she said yes, and then continued that she does not have much time because she was leaving for school within one week. no I saw her on couple locations here and there but was nothing special.
Now I want to send her a facebook msg inviting her over a coffee again, how would I phrase it, not to sound a complete D.B.? When we made the first plans I took her number and called her saying that "hey you owe me a coffee for all the troubles"

Should I first comment on some posts with her, or chat with her?
or juts go right to the "Hey remember the coffee you owed my? I want it"

please send me your suggestions with you interesting approach to this situation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DMSR76

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You should probably let this one ride. She never counter-offered or made any real effort to maintain a genuine connection with you (Facebook is NOT a connection), so it's very likely she's not interested. As far as the excuse of not having any time is concerned, people ALWAYS make time for things they want.

No sense of reciprocity from a person is always a bad sign. Even if the two of you were to start dating, her general lack of consideration for your time and effort will likely fester.
 
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kingsam

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Pr0lab said:
she said yes, and then continued that she does not have much time because she was leaving for school within one week.
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ther wouldnt have been much point in a RL as she would have been far away
 
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kingsam said:
ther wouldnt have been much point in a RL as she would have been far away
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but she is back now.
I thought maybe say something funny
 
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