"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ask her out AGAIN!

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Pr0lab

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Hey People!

I have had an experience last summer with a girl when I met her at a party, added her on facebook and invited her for a coffee.
she said yes, and then continued that she does not have much time because she was leaving for school within one week. no I saw her on couple locations here and there but was nothing special.
Now I want to send her a facebook msg inviting her over a coffee again, how would I phrase it, not to sound a complete D.B.? When we made the first plans I took her number and called her saying that "hey you owe me a coffee for all the troubles"

Should I first comment on some posts with her, or chat with her?
or juts go right to the "Hey remember the coffee you owed my? I want it"

please send me your suggestions with you interesting approach to this situation.
 

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You should probably let this one ride. She never counter-offered or made any real effort to maintain a genuine connection with you (Facebook is NOT a connection), so it's very likely she's not interested. As far as the excuse of not having any time is concerned, people ALWAYS make time for things they want.

No sense of reciprocity from a person is always a bad sign. Even if the two of you were to start dating, her general lack of consideration for your time and effort will likely fester.
 
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Pr0lab said:
she said yes, and then continued that she does not have much time because she was leaving for school within one week.
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ther wouldnt have been much point in a RL as she would have been far away
 
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kingsam said:
ther wouldnt have been much point in a RL as she would have been far away
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but she is back now.
I thought maybe say something funny
 
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