Ask her out AGAIN!

[Pr0lab]

Hey People!

I have had an experience last summer with a girl when I met her at a party, added her on facebook and invited her for a coffee.
she said yes, and then continued that she does not have much time because she was leaving for school within one week. no I saw her on couple locations here and there but was nothing special.
Now I want to send her a facebook msg inviting her over a coffee again, how would I phrase it, not to sound a complete D.B.? When we made the first plans I took her number and called her saying that "hey you owe me a coffee for all the troubles"

Should I first comment on some posts with her, or chat with her?
or juts go right to the "Hey remember the coffee you owed my? I want it"

please send me your suggestions with you interesting approach to this situation.

 

[DMSR76]

You should probably let this one ride. She never counter-offered or made any real effort to maintain a genuine connection with you (Facebook is NOT a connection), so it's very likely she's not interested. As far as the excuse of not having any time is concerned, people ALWAYS make time for things they want.

No sense of reciprocity from a person is always a bad sign. Even if the two of you were to start dating, her general lack of consideration for your time and effort will likely fester.

 

[kingsam]

she said yes, and then continued that she does not have much time because she was leaving for school within one week.

ther wouldnt have been much point in a RL as she would have been far away

 

[Pr0lab]

ther wouldnt have been much point in a RL as she would have been far away

but she is back now.
I thought maybe say something funny