"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ask any old woman...all women nowadays are fat

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It's amazing really...I ended up the other day going to my grandmas 80th bday at a restaurant with some of her still living friends. Most still had their wits about them (and were younger than 80) but they got on the subject of "gals today". Basically the consensus of the group is that women today are allowed to be fat, and that the media doesn't do a good enough job shaming and stigmatizing fat women.

They laughed off the idea of "curvy" "big boned" "voluptuous" etc.

One of them was just like "JUST ANOTHER WORD FOR FAT, THEY'RE ALL ****ING FAT"

And it's true. We've created all these subsets to make women feel better. But really there are 3. You're either a fit, athletic woman. A thin woman...or a fat woman. Even somebody average shaped like Kate Winslet. They said she could stand to drop a solid 10.

ah the hypocrisy

http://www.iloveweed.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/Funny-memes-real-men-have-curves.jpg
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just about the stupidest thing I've ever read. That's like saying ice cream comes in only three flavors. I like my women thick and curvy. If that's fat for you, tough luck. And the opinions of a bunch of 70 year old has-beens? Lol. Seriously?
 

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El Payaso said:
Just about the stupidest thing I've ever read. That's like saying ice cream comes in only three flavors. I like my women thick and curvy. If that's fat for you, tough luck. And the opinions of a bunch of 70 year old has-beens? Lol. Seriously?
that's pretty much it yes. You like fatties. Your preferences disgust me

but whatever works for you...
 

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There's a difference between curvy and fat. Problem is...most fat girls use the term "curvy" to describe themselves when they are in fact fat. Fat girls should stop lying to themself first and foremost.


curvy vs fat: http://pbs.twimg.com/media/BD9M4eqCUAAbO6d.png:large
 

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Let the old guy say something here:
Back in my day, "curvy" meant curvy, not fat. It meant the girls had delicious curves, like girls are meant to.

Somewhere along the line the obesity epidemic struck, and the fat women confiscated the word "curvy". What a shame.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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