"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ask any old woman...all women nowadays are fat

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It's amazing really...I ended up the other day going to my grandmas 80th bday at a restaurant with some of her still living friends. Most still had their wits about them (and were younger than 80) but they got on the subject of "gals today". Basically the consensus of the group is that women today are allowed to be fat, and that the media doesn't do a good enough job shaming and stigmatizing fat women.

They laughed off the idea of "curvy" "big boned" "voluptuous" etc.

One of them was just like "JUST ANOTHER WORD FOR FAT, THEY'RE ALL ****ING FAT"

And it's true. We've created all these subsets to make women feel better. But really there are 3. You're either a fit, athletic woman. A thin woman...or a fat woman. Even somebody average shaped like Kate Winslet. They said she could stand to drop a solid 10.

ah the hypocrisy

http://www.iloveweed.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/Funny-memes-real-men-have-curves.jpg
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just about the stupidest thing I've ever read. That's like saying ice cream comes in only three flavors. I like my women thick and curvy. If that's fat for you, tough luck. And the opinions of a bunch of 70 year old has-beens? Lol. Seriously?
 

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El Payaso said:
Just about the stupidest thing I've ever read. That's like saying ice cream comes in only three flavors. I like my women thick and curvy. If that's fat for you, tough luck. And the opinions of a bunch of 70 year old has-beens? Lol. Seriously?
that's pretty much it yes. You like fatties. Your preferences disgust me

but whatever works for you...
 

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There's a difference between curvy and fat. Problem is...most fat girls use the term "curvy" to describe themselves when they are in fact fat. Fat girls should stop lying to themself first and foremost.


curvy vs fat: http://pbs.twimg.com/media/BD9M4eqCUAAbO6d.png:large
 

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Let the old guy say something here:
Back in my day, "curvy" meant curvy, not fat. It meant the girls had delicious curves, like girls are meant to.

Somewhere along the line the obesity epidemic struck, and the fat women confiscated the word "curvy". What a shame.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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