Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ask and It is Given

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This book has changed my life, not only with girls but every aspect of it. The essence is that if you believe something so strongly that it has to come true because you are the sole creator of your life experiences. It even goes further and says that whatever you believe you have you actually already have it but because of we as humans view time we just can't see it yet.

It is truely a great way of looking at life because if something goes wrong in your life your initial reaction, instead of pissing and moaning, is too look for the error in my thinking that caused it.

Has anyone else read it or anything like it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, i am into that kind of books, kindda spiritual.
Also books like "the power of intention", "the reconnection" really help you out.

One of the concepts that i have gotten from these books, is just like what pook said: As you think you shall become.

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It's a brilliant concept and each and every day I live by it, and each day I become more and more confident.
 

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Yes, I have read that book and its amazing. The person who has recommended this book was A-unit in one of his threads. As A-unit said "The movie Secret and Ask and it's given go hand in hand". Basically, it says "Whatever you think you attract it". This is a law called Law of Attraction. It would take forever to explain the concept so here's the link. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101963
 
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when i was 8 years old i wanted to see a group of rap called delinquent habits...10 years later i was in a club and i went out to call a friend and there they was!! and i got the autograph and a picture
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A good book, well, a good three books i read are called "Conversations With God" by Neale Walch. it is debatable whether he did actually have conversations with God but there are many cool concepts.

One concept I have been interested is that you are the main character in your life. Unless you experience something you can only ever have a concept, for instance, I will never meet any of you. I only have a concept of the seduction community. I can be told that it exists but until I experience it - it will remain a concept.
I must check these out and i recommend Conversations With God
 

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Why yes Noob, it is like praying to God. Because you were made in God's (the Creator) image you are creating all of the time and you create with your thoughts and feelings. That is why you must only give attention to thoughts and feelings that you like because that is what you will create.


Just think of it this way, "Imagine what you could do if you could not fail."
 
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