"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ask and It is Given

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This book has changed my life, not only with girls but every aspect of it. The essence is that if you believe something so strongly that it has to come true because you are the sole creator of your life experiences. It even goes further and says that whatever you believe you have you actually already have it but because of we as humans view time we just can't see it yet.

It is truely a great way of looking at life because if something goes wrong in your life your initial reaction, instead of pissing and moaning, is too look for the error in my thinking that caused it.

Has anyone else read it or anything like it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes, i am into that kind of books, kindda spiritual.
Also books like "the power of intention", "the reconnection" really help you out.

One of the concepts that i have gotten from these books, is just like what pook said: As you think you shall become.

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It's a brilliant concept and each and every day I live by it, and each day I become more and more confident.
 

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Yes, I have read that book and its amazing. The person who has recommended this book was A-unit in one of his threads. As A-unit said "The movie Secret and Ask and it's given go hand in hand". Basically, it says "Whatever you think you attract it". This is a law called Law of Attraction. It would take forever to explain the concept so here's the link. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101963
 
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when i was 8 years old i wanted to see a group of rap called delinquent habits...10 years later i was in a club and i went out to call a friend and there they was!! and i got the autograph and a picture
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A good book, well, a good three books i read are called "Conversations With God" by Neale Walch. it is debatable whether he did actually have conversations with God but there are many cool concepts.

One concept I have been interested is that you are the main character in your life. Unless you experience something you can only ever have a concept, for instance, I will never meet any of you. I only have a concept of the seduction community. I can be told that it exists but until I experience it - it will remain a concept.
I must check these out and i recommend Conversations With God
 

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Why yes Noob, it is like praying to God. Because you were made in God's (the Creator) image you are creating all of the time and you create with your thoughts and feelings. That is why you must only give attention to thoughts and feelings that you like because that is what you will create.


Just think of it this way, "Imagine what you could do if you could not fail."
 
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