Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
my opinion: Do you mean "reviled" as in the way that you used to treat single men when you were in your sexual market prime?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Notice the woman's bitter attitude (that she doesn't seem aware of). The world doesn't owe any one of us a bloody thing. We create the existence we have largely through our choices and our attitudes. I've been around people who complain like this at times...around women of various ages that complain about men in this way....https://www.mercurynews.com/2018/08/24/ask-amy-think-look-great-men-dont-agree/
my opinion: Do you mean "reviled" as in the way that you used to treat single men when you were in your sexual market prime?
