"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is another Asian post! I have been searching about Asian woman here and there is alot of different things about how to hook up with them.

I work by a Chinese resturant and there is a hostess that I see everyday. I don't know what kind of life they live but I see them come in the morning all packed in a van together. Then she is there 7 days a week like 12 hours a day. I have no idea what kind of time for dating she would have or why they all seem to live like that. I guess they all live together as well.

So she never says anything except "sign here please :)" A few weeks ago I am standing outside of work and she is standing outside of the resturant waiting to be left in and I see her looking over at me when I look at her she looks away. I then look up and she is looking at me again. The other day she finally speaks to me and said you work at that store. Now being a idiot I wonder and wonder why did she ask where I work?

How do you get with them? I read here some say be AFC others say they are no different than other woman. BTW I think she is part white and I think she came from China and has not lived in the USA for long. I have also heard that asian woman like big guys like height. Why do they seem to all stick to themselves
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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curiosity killed the cat.

You're afraid arent you, i can smell it. Sad to say most guys dont get enough interracial exposure, that they are afraid and intrigued simply because they dont understand other races.

just ask her out
 
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Just GAME her.
 
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Well what are you suppose to do? Just be AFC which btw I am a expert at! JUst be like Hi whats your name and then go from there? I don't want to scare her off. I notice she will not even look at me if she is saying something to me she keeps her head down.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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um just like any other chick man worst that can happen is you get rejected, which means you're right back where you started =s
 
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I finally did something about this. I went to the resturant and this woman was working my whole way to the resturant I was getting so damn nervous. I had to tell me self all I am doing is talking to a human being. It is weird how you act like you are about to do something that is going to kill you.

I go get my food and am paying for it and I just said to her "How are you doing today?" She said fine and had this big smile on her face and she just looked at me so I thought gee I better say something else here she is just looking at me. So I made some convo and she was smiling away. I then was leaving and she said have a nice day it was like she was yelling it to me. I have never seen this woman smile but man did she smile like a clown. BTW she was not at work for a few days and she said she had to go to New York for a few days. I just said oh you went to New York she smiled and was like yeah. Do they make you go to New York for there Visa's or something?

So how did this go allright with her? So today I go in there and she does not say a word to me! What is this about? I didn't say anything either.
 
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Can anybody help?
 
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Well what are you suppose to do? JUst be like Hi whats your name and then go from there? I don't want to scare her off. I notice she will not even look at me if she is saying something to me she keeps her head down.
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Take the time to read the DJ Bible. Then do the DJ Bootcamp. Learning how to approach and game women (of any race) is located within. Thanks.
 
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