"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is another Asian post! I have been searching about Asian woman here and there is alot of different things about how to hook up with them.

I work by a Chinese resturant and there is a hostess that I see everyday. I don't know what kind of life they live but I see them come in the morning all packed in a van together. Then she is there 7 days a week like 12 hours a day. I have no idea what kind of time for dating she would have or why they all seem to live like that. I guess they all live together as well.

So she never says anything except "sign here please :)" A few weeks ago I am standing outside of work and she is standing outside of the resturant waiting to be left in and I see her looking over at me when I look at her she looks away. I then look up and she is looking at me again. The other day she finally speaks to me and said you work at that store. Now being a idiot I wonder and wonder why did she ask where I work?

How do you get with them? I read here some say be AFC others say they are no different than other woman. BTW I think she is part white and I think she came from China and has not lived in the USA for long. I have also heard that asian woman like big guys like height. Why do they seem to all stick to themselves
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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curiosity killed the cat.

You're afraid arent you, i can smell it. Sad to say most guys dont get enough interracial exposure, that they are afraid and intrigued simply because they dont understand other races.

just ask her out
 
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Just GAME her.
 
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Well what are you suppose to do? Just be AFC which btw I am a expert at! JUst be like Hi whats your name and then go from there? I don't want to scare her off. I notice she will not even look at me if she is saying something to me she keeps her head down.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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um just like any other chick man worst that can happen is you get rejected, which means you're right back where you started =s
 
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I finally did something about this. I went to the resturant and this woman was working my whole way to the resturant I was getting so damn nervous. I had to tell me self all I am doing is talking to a human being. It is weird how you act like you are about to do something that is going to kill you.

I go get my food and am paying for it and I just said to her "How are you doing today?" She said fine and had this big smile on her face and she just looked at me so I thought gee I better say something else here she is just looking at me. So I made some convo and she was smiling away. I then was leaving and she said have a nice day it was like she was yelling it to me. I have never seen this woman smile but man did she smile like a clown. BTW she was not at work for a few days and she said she had to go to New York for a few days. I just said oh you went to New York she smiled and was like yeah. Do they make you go to New York for there Visa's or something?

So how did this go allright with her? So today I go in there and she does not say a word to me! What is this about? I didn't say anything either.
 
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Can anybody help?
 
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Well what are you suppose to do? JUst be like Hi whats your name and then go from there? I don't want to scare her off. I notice she will not even look at me if she is saying something to me she keeps her head down.
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