"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asian guys with no facial hair

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Male Asian male here 22 years old. I have facial hair but its just the moustache and some under the chin. I cannot grow a beard but I do not see many Asian males who have a beard. Basically all my facial hair is my moustache, which isn't much and the hair under my chin.

Most of my friends my age are pretty much the same except maybe 1 or 2 can grow a beard. I know most guys other than Asian grow facial hair and have tons of it at my age already.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think i confused eveyrone then. I meant to say do any of you see many Asian males with a lot of facial hair, like beards? I live in NYC btw.
 
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Lol, im 22 and south-asian. And have a beard, so do most of my mates.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cr1msonKing said:
What does have to do with progressing with your life?

I have hair on my face, and on my ass. Do you want my ass hair? Cuz most girls don't like it
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A beard makes you look more mature(=more attractive).
 
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"Your right, a beard makes you LOOK more mature. It doesn't actually make you more mature/masculine/attractive."

The looking mature was the important bit I believe. It affects the way women see you, whether its true or not.

Having said that, you make the most of what you have. Dwelling over things that can't be changed is pointless.
 
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trv26 said:
"Your right, a beard makes you LOOK more mature. It doesn't actually make you more mature/masculine/attractive."

The looking mature was the important bit I believe. It affects the way women see you, whether its true or not.

Having said that, you make the most of what you have. Dwelling over things that can't be changed is pointless.
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most girls like it when you're clean shaven..

anyway i'm asian i only have hair on my tache and chin but who cares
 
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... I am not the emotional type crimson. I dont understand the need for that comment.

Did you get a heartbreak from a girl which is why you say this? I was just asking a question. You make it seem like it is the end of the world LOL.:eek:
 
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IMO, if you can't go all the way (with a beard), go completely clean cut. It usually is more attractive to girls anyway.

I can't stand the "half beards" or "semi moustaches" some guys have now. Not only does it show that they can't grow good facial hair, but it just looks stupid.

Go clean cut, asian or not.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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South-Asia = India, Pakistan, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh, etc....

I'm Korean and it's pretty much the same with me. I know a few people (East Asian of some sort) that can grow facial hair. None of them let it grow out though.

Which borough are you from?

Cr1mson, I think the OP was asking it more out of curiosity than anything else.
 
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you mean like this guy...



or this guy?



forget it man. Chinese can't grow facial hair
 
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Haha, I don't think he meant South Asian. Most Indian and Pakistani dudes don't have a problem with facial hair or hair in any other region!

It's rare to see an East Asian man with full facial hair. I'm hard pressed to think of any that I know, but I have seen a few.

I don't have a problem growing facial hair, but I choose to stay clean shaven most of the time.

Not every guy looks good with facial hair, but almost any guy can look good clean shaven. It's neat and clean. Most chicks I know seem to prefer the clean shaven look. Sometimes, they'll have phases when they want their boyfriend/husband to try a more rugged Grizzly Adams look.
 
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Yeah, I don't think OP means south asian. It seems to come with culture and religion in those areas to grow a beard, and as such I see a lot of Indian and Pakistani men, for example, with a lot of facial hair.

OP, are you East asian? (like Chinese for example)

I haven't seen many Chinese men who have a lot of facial hair.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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