"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asian Guys, try this:

protienpowder

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I have a friend whose hawaiian, he's like 1/4th white and a buncha other random asian races. He looks pretty chinese though. Anyways, he says whenever he tries to hit on a white girl, their usuall pretty cold at first, but then they tend to open up to him more once they find out he's hawaiian, a surfer, and is in a reggie band. He does pretty good with white women, though, their about a point lower on the hotness scale than the asian girls he can get with. But thats allot better than regular asian guys who have to sacrafice like 3 points on the hotness scale to get a white women.
The reason for this is cuz americans loves hawaiian culture. Their seen as relaxed, outgoing, and fun. Regular asians on the otherhand are seen as shy, dilligent, and quiete.
This just goes to show that its mostly a lack of confidence and lack of white washness thats holding asian guys back from white women. I can understand why though. Asian girls are hot, and the best way to get em is to hang out in those asian cliques( groups that only hang out with asian people). However, hanging out in an asian clique is definatly unattractive to white women.
Come to think of it, most of the Indian/south asian guys that I know that get white women easily all hang out with either white guys or a mix of races. You see this more with Indian/south asian guys cuz Indian girls are relativly unattractive (there are some hella hot ones though), so theirs nothing driving Indian guys to hang out in any Indian cliques(sp?). Have you even heard of an Indian clique?
My advice to just be yourself. Don't let race determine who you are, what type of friends you hang out with, and the type of girls you hit on.
There are also other girls besides white and asian (look at my other post regarding this, I don't have too many posts so its easy to look up).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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unreal-guy

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so try what?

pretend to be hawaiian? have mix raced friends? not shy?

i am asian and i don't have a problem dating any race girls
i prefer white/russian women though :p
 

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Just don't giving a flying f*** about race. Just be the person you wanna be.

OK. this is hypocritical of me, but my advice to you, since you have trouble dating any race girls, try asian girls first.
 

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unreal-guy said:
so try what?

pretend to be hawaiian? have mix raced friends? not shy?

i am asian and i don't have a problem dating any race girls
i prefer white/russian women though :p
exactly. why try something that your not? his post does not make any sense:confused:
 

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sorry, I some how read "
i am asian and i have a problem dating any race girls"

instead of what you actually wrote. So my reply didn't make sense. . . .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ww

why do asian guys have to sacrifice 3 points to hookup with a 6 white girl then hookup with a blazing 9 asian girl?

that seems kind of counter productive
 

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that's because asian girls likes white guys -_-|||
white girls likes black guys
and so on. no place for asian guys
 

protienpowder

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jcap said:
why do asian guys have to sacrifice 3 points to hookup with a 6 white girl then hookup with a blazing 9 asian girl?

that seems kind of counter productive
Its only like that cuz society's current view on asians and most asian guyes standards when it comes to white women.

If an asian guy wants a hot asian girl, its ez for them, if they want a girl of another race, its alittle harder, but still do-able. Thats the same for any race, but hardest for asians.
 
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Hey, Bruce Lee broke the barrier with a white chick before he become famous.

No reason Asians can't get it done.

Try some of that "Water takes the shape of the glass" stuff.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Interracial relationships have been decisioned in this fourm way to many times. Please do a search man because it's been talked about.

I will say it agian, if you become a dj, you can get any girl you want. A dj is a man. A dj causes attarction. A dj has many other weapons to seducting women.


What men fail to do when understanding women is.....
Women don't know what they want.
You gotta stop listening to girls say.

I want a nice guy
I want a guy in touch with his feelings
I want a smart guy
I want a tall guy

Throw that crap in the trash can, because it all just confuses you more. Don't listen to women, listen to the dj bible and other good inner or outer game books.

To go the journal tips you will see a post about interracial dating and relationships.

Also, the new geneation of people are accepting interracial dating. The older generation dosen't accepted it due to them not doing it in their time period.

Even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it. ~ Hitch

"It's lack of faith that makes people afraid of meeting challenges, and I believed in myself."-Muhammad Ali
 

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pfftt im asian and im in the most whitest country and place on this planet... and i keep gaming hb 7-9s...
race dont matter a sh'it if your interesting.....
im so sick and tired of hearing this bullsh'it from guys here , saying that white chicks don like asian guys is just an excuse for not beign able to game them , instead of rasjonalising your failures why not try a different approuch... you cant use the same game on every woman , women are different so you have to game them differently.....
 

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Morphiex said:
pfftt im asian and im in the most whitest country and place on this planet... and i keep gaming hb 7-9s...
race dont matter a sh'it if your interesting.....
im so sick and tired of hearing this bullsh'it from guys here , saying that white chicks don like asian guys is just an excuse for not beign able to game them , instead of rasjonalising your failures why not try a different approuch... you cant use the same game on every woman , women are different so you have to game them differently.....

yes but not asian indian hes talking about, hes talking about far east asian.
 

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Can people please shut the **** up about asian guys and white girls? If you're not getting them, its because either: 1) they're prejudiced, or 2) you suck. 90% of the time its #2 so work on that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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