"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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asian chick digging white dudes! HELP

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I've liked this one asian chick for a while. HB 8 could make a 8.5 if she moved up a cup, but anyways i've been flirting with her and we got pretty close, but her friends says she digs white dudes. I didn believe them at first, MISTAKE! We got a new white guy at our school not good looking at all if u ask me but she thinks he's SOOOOO cute. They barly talk and she asked him to the dance. She's always huggin him and all over him. Trust me i met the guy and hanged with him definetly not DJ. What should i do
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And what race are you my good sir ??

A woman's preference is her preference, can't change that, but how many times have you had sex with less than 'preferable' women ?? Same with females

She ain't gotta prefer you to fvck you :rockon:


-Cod3r
 

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Man, I hate what stereotypes do to people. You've bought into this stuff if you even made a post regarding this. I am creating a new thread based on this stuff.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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She probably likes him better because it sounds as if you've spent more time with him and her friends than you have with her. Stop tiptoeing around her and do something productive.
 

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o sorry yea i'm Asian. No i know she digs white bois because theres this other guy i know I REALLY HATE HIM WITH A PASSION. Who liked her and i hate to admit it he was a DJ and she was all over him but when he asked her out she said no.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If she likes you better then she will want to be with you. I'm sure what your question is? Your problem has nothing to do with any other guy.
 

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Hahahahaha @ the video above. I have noticed though that alot of asain women stare at me compared to any other race. To top it off my dad's first couple of girlfriends were asains. Oh yeah by the way,I'm white.
 
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blinkwattwhat's ur dad first white gf have to do with the asian girls staring at u?

Rint dude, u're developing oneititis. there are 2 things u can do. ask her out before the other guys does or just go for a different one. she's digging white guys doesn't mean there is no exception. i'm asian and i prefer blond white chicks but that doesn't mean i won't go for the asian chicks.
 

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Funny video and I actually see more azn and black couples than azn and white couples. All of my girls friends have black bf's, husbands or fiance's... I never thought azn's liked black guys until one girl opened me up and infected me with the 'yellow fever'

I love my azn ladies, mmmm:up:


-Cod3r
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blinkwatt

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greenlake said:
blinkwattwhat's ur dad first white gf have to do with the asian girls staring at u?
My mistake,I meant to put they were asain. He has passed down the asain attracting magnet to me,his white son.
 

Cod3r

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^ ^ Angry paranoid black man says...

"So you're saying whites dominate other races?"


-Cod3r
 

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Cod3r said:
^ ^ Angry paranoid black man says...

"So you're saying whites dominate other races?"


-Cod3r
as much as i hate to say. whites created the race to separate themselves from others.
 

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lets not talk about race stuff-- a dj can disregard all that crap- only the AFCs get their panties in a bundle about that stuff
Im all for asian guys banging white girls and black girls though- the more the better-- haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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rsxtreme said:
after all we are living in an country where white is the dominant race.
What does that have to do with a girls preference in the opposite sex?
 
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