"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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asian chick digging white dudes! HELP

Rint

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I've liked this one asian chick for a while. HB 8 could make a 8.5 if she moved up a cup, but anyways i've been flirting with her and we got pretty close, but her friends says she digs white dudes. I didn believe them at first, MISTAKE! We got a new white guy at our school not good looking at all if u ask me but she thinks he's SOOOOO cute. They barly talk and she asked him to the dance. She's always huggin him and all over him. Trust me i met the guy and hanged with him definetly not DJ. What should i do
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And what race are you my good sir ??

A woman's preference is her preference, can't change that, but how many times have you had sex with less than 'preferable' women ?? Same with females

She ain't gotta prefer you to fvck you :rockon:


-Cod3r
 

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Man, I hate what stereotypes do to people. You've bought into this stuff if you even made a post regarding this. I am creating a new thread based on this stuff.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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She probably likes him better because it sounds as if you've spent more time with him and her friends than you have with her. Stop tiptoeing around her and do something productive.
 

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o sorry yea i'm Asian. No i know she digs white bois because theres this other guy i know I REALLY HATE HIM WITH A PASSION. Who liked her and i hate to admit it he was a DJ and she was all over him but when he asked her out she said no.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she likes you better then she will want to be with you. I'm sure what your question is? Your problem has nothing to do with any other guy.
 

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Hahahahaha @ the video above. I have noticed though that alot of asain women stare at me compared to any other race. To top it off my dad's first couple of girlfriends were asains. Oh yeah by the way,I'm white.
 
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blinkwattwhat's ur dad first white gf have to do with the asian girls staring at u?

Rint dude, u're developing oneititis. there are 2 things u can do. ask her out before the other guys does or just go for a different one. she's digging white guys doesn't mean there is no exception. i'm asian and i prefer blond white chicks but that doesn't mean i won't go for the asian chicks.
 

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Funny video and I actually see more azn and black couples than azn and white couples. All of my girls friends have black bf's, husbands or fiance's... I never thought azn's liked black guys until one girl opened me up and infected me with the 'yellow fever'

I love my azn ladies, mmmm:up:


-Cod3r
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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greenlake said:
blinkwattwhat's ur dad first white gf have to do with the asian girls staring at u?
My mistake,I meant to put they were asain. He has passed down the asain attracting magnet to me,his white son.
 

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^ ^ Angry paranoid black man says...

"So you're saying whites dominate other races?"


-Cod3r
 

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Cod3r said:
^ ^ Angry paranoid black man says...

"So you're saying whites dominate other races?"


-Cod3r
as much as i hate to say. whites created the race to separate themselves from others.
 

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lets not talk about race stuff-- a dj can disregard all that crap- only the AFCs get their panties in a bundle about that stuff
Im all for asian guys banging white girls and black girls though- the more the better-- haha
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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rsxtreme said:
after all we are living in an country where white is the dominant race.
What does that have to do with a girls preference in the opposite sex?
 
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